101 Days of Summer – Outside

Today was my older son’s last day of school.  When asked what he wants to do this summer, he answers:

“Have a playdate with Johnny, play lots of video games, and spend time with you.”

Awww.

I am pretty sure my husband told him to say that last one, but my son has pulled that one out before, so it may be genuine.

If they had their way, both of my children would indeed stay inside and play video games all summer.  Luckily I am sometimes a very responsible mother, so I do things like sign them up for camp at Agoura Hills Rec Center, shove them out the door into the backyard to play handball (while I grit my teeth every time the ball hits our kitchen window), and tote them around the corner to our neighborhood pool.

Of course, since the boys have inherited my alabaster white skin, they must be dipped in sunscreen from head to toe before they even so much as think about the sun.  When we were invited by Banana Boat to a fun party in at Roxbury Park in Beverly Hills to sample their new Natural Reflect Sunscreen Lotion, eat snacks, and play games, I was happy to schlep them across town to check it out.

Banana Boat is celebrating summer with several promotions on their special Facebook page “101  Days of Summer.”  There, you can upload your own photos of summer memories and enter a contest to win a family vacation to Grand Teton National Park in Wyoming.  You can also take a pledge to get outside this summer, and every time someone does that, Banana Boat will donate a bottle of their sunscreen lotion to the Hole in the Wall Gang Camp – a summer camp in Connecticut for children coping with serious illnesses.

I feel comfortable slathering Natural Reflect on my children – and myself too – because it is made with natural ingredients, and includes less of the bad stuff and more of the good stuff that protects them from the sun.  It is pretty thick and goes on heavy, takes about a minute and some good rubbing to absorb into skin a little bit.  But that is fine with me.  Number one priority is no sunburn.

The party in the park with a small group of my favorite LA bloggers and their families was the perfect way to get acquainted with the Banana Boat brand.  My kids had no clue we were there for a brand party – they never do – so they cavorted and competed in the lawn games and Kid 1 even took home the bean bag game as a prize.

No wallflowers here – even the bloggers themselves got into the summer fun.  Anna Flores of Spanglish Baby smoked the competition in the hula hoop challenge.  Other contestants were Andrea Fellman of Savvy Sassy Moms, Alexandra Bowers aka Beverly Hills Mom, and Sarah Auerswald of MomsLA and Sarah and Sons.

It’s nice when someone gets it right.  A simple little get-together in a park, good friends, and a small goodie bag with product, a Frisbee, and a flash drive with all the information we needed.  Oh, and mini chocolate cupcakes.  Gotta have those.

I am being compensated for sharing all this Banana Boat-flavored goodness with you, but the opinions are my own and the smiles were all genuine.  Thanks to Savvy Sassy Moms and Adrienne’s House for the lovely afternoon.

Shaking Those Bodies

The most amusing thing about my children listening to music is the way they react physically:  it’s as if their bodies are little tuning forks, vibrating from head to toe with the joy of hearing a favorite song or discovering a new one.  They dance to everything from the music on those maddening plastic toys to Yo Yo Ma.  That’s why I long to expose them to the pleasures of dance instruction.  Considering that they’re both boys and their father is a bit, ahem, traditional in that way, I know dance classes will be an uphill battle for us.

In the meantime, I can at least bring them to shows where other kids dance, and maybe they’ll get some instruction as part of audience interaction.  Starting June 18 at the Madrid Theater in Canoga Park, the kids can be exposed to many different styles of music at the weekly offerings of the Valley Cultural Center’s “Monday Morning Concerts For Children” Series.

Every week during the summer at 10AM, the Center brings a professional musical act to the Madrid Theater so children can get an interactive experience with musicians and artists.  There is often audience participation, and the events are FREE (reservations required).  Great way to start off those summer weeks!

It’s Not a Film Premiere, It’s a School Fundraiser

Last Saturday night I witnessed an event that raised over $400,000 to help fund resources for schools in the Las Virgenes Unified School District.  Basically, it was as if your PTA was made up of powerful, wealthy, influential people whose full time job is to get people to donate amazing prizes, and throw a seamless, entertaining party that will loosen the wallets of the richest people in town.

T.H.E. Event at the Calabasas Tennis and Swim Center was an evening of food and wine tasting coupled with a silent auction, followed by a live auction that featured prizes like:

-A VIP Girls’ Night Out complete with limo service, beauty treatments at Drybar, dinner and wine, and a live taping of The Bachelorette

-A trip to Boston to see the Red Sox vs. the Yankees

-Tickets and backstage passes to multiple concerts

-Golf and ski packages

-A fully stocked high-tech wine refrigerator

T.H.E. stands for Together Helping Education, a non-profit that raises money to “provide sustainable and consistent funding directly to all the public schools in the” LVUSD.  As I understand it, funds raised by T.H.E. can pay for teachers’ jobs, days of school that are threatened by ever-looming budget cuts, and other things that individual schools’ parent-faculty groups are not allowed to supply.  With the condition of the budget in California, every school is in jeopardy and uses donated funds to support the personnel and programs once funded by our tax dollars.

So basically, even if your kid is in a nice public school, it’s still like he’s attending a private school, because they still need more of your money.

T.H.E. Event, the first in what is planned to be an annual series, was like a fundraiser for the fanciest private school I’ve ever witnessed.  I’ve been to many high-end events that showcased luxury in painful excess, and thought “imagine if all this money went to charity.”  Well, on this night it did.

The program for T.H.E. Event alone is an impressive full-color spiral bound notebook filled with glossy ads for huge brands like Fiji Water, Dole, Wells Fargo, and the Academy of Country Music.  If you had been there, you would have seen hundreds of the parents you see at pickup and dropoff, a smattering of celebrities like Jennifer Love Hewitt, and at least one school principal in attendance.

See anyone you know?

Tickets to attend the event were $150 just to get a plate and make your way around the food and wine and beer booths, $250 per person for a seat at one of the artfully laid tables.  A special-access lounge tent was set up too, of course, because even at an event full of VIP’s, there were extra-special VIP’s about.

Just regular VIP's. Not in the lounge.

My friends and I barely made it around the horn to sample the food and beverages, so I didn’t even get a glance at the silent auction tables, which were full of offerings for local businesses and services, tickets to shows or local attractions, and trips to faraway places like Antigua.  I was happy enough to meet and greet the proprietors of our close-by restaurants, wineries, and crafters of beer.

This is the team that makes Red Mile Road Ale.  They are three pals who met at Cal State Northridge, who purchased a beer-making kit in Encino and grew to love the craft.  Now they roam the countryside, plying their delicious craft brews at events, because they don’t have their license to sell the beer retail yet.  Isn’t that adorable?  They were serving samples of something amber and tasty, and I liked it.

Entertainment after the presentation and silent auction was provided by The Band From TV, which is basically a band made of minor TV stars who seem to want to get together and jam, and they only do it at charity events.  They actually did it big on this night, and quite well.

These hills are crawling with VIP’s who send their kids to public school.  Why do you think we moved here?  Now let’s hope T.H.E. uses the giant pile of money they raised in a responsible, constructive fashion.  After all, they raised quite a ruckus to publicize T.H.E. Event, so now everyone is paying attention.