“Lost In Living,” Documentary About Motherhood Screening This Friday

There is a lovely, quiet, and amazing film in the works.

It tells the story of a handful of women and their lives as creative people who are also mothers.

The filmmaker, Mary Trunk, followed their stories for seven years before assembling her footage into a feature-length film.

“Lost In Living” is visually beautiful and its theme is one that almost every mother that I know can understand:  the internal struggle between the woman you were before you had children and the mother you have become.  Where is the time in your life, now that you have kids, for your art or your hobby or your passion?  Does it lurk beneath the surface, waiting for your children to grow older and become more self-sufficient so that you have time to focus on your work again?  Or does it die from neglect, and with it, a part of your soul?  Or is that okay, because your mothering has wholly replaced your art, opening up a new world, a new person for you to be?

Local filmmaker Mary Trunk, herself a mother, has fashioned this wonderful piece of art from the trappings of motherhood itself.  As many documentaries have done, “Lost In Living” is now showing in the first of a series of local screenings, partnering with a local charity as the beneficiary of the donations collected that night.

Lost In Living Screening

Friday, February 1, at 7:00 PM
The Forum at All Saints Church
132 N. Euclid Avenue
Pasadena, CA 91101

Doors open at 6:30. Screening begins at 7. The film is one hour 50 minutes. Reception and Q & A with Director, Mary Trunk, and the women in the film after the screening.

There is available street parking and the Westin Hotel (behind the church on Los Robles) offers parking for $5. Please just mention you are attending a screening at All Saints Church.

For more information about Lost in Living, please visit Ma and Pa Films.
There is a suggested donation of $5 and all proceeds will benefit The Foster Care Project.

Weekend Activity: Free Museum Visits!

My son, then 3, helps animals enter Noah’s Ark, two by two.  Photo by Lisa Kelly.

Several museums are opening their doors to SoCal dwellers for FREE this weekend as part of an event called Museums Free For All in Los Angeles that aims to encourage people to visit these fortresses of culture.

I mean, how many times can you stand taking the kids to Chuck E. Cheese when it’s raining?  I’m not gonna lie – I resort to a few hours at the mouse house on occasion, but I usually need a nap and a Vicodin afterwards.

Why not take this opportunity to branch out and learn something?  The Skirball Cultural Center is one of the participating locations.  Free admission and first-come, first-served access to the Noah’s Ark interactive exhibit for children both Saturday and Sunday.  See a full list of participating museums on Skirball’s site.

 

Ahoy, Mateys! Channel Islands Harbor Home To Tall Ships Until January 27

Now through January 27, board the Hawaiian Chieftain and Lady Washington ships to poke around real sailing vessels from days past. Lady Washington was even seen in a Pirates of the Caribbean movie!

Just take the 101 North to Victoria, turn left, and stop when you see the masts of these wonderful working ships. Parking is free in lots and along the street. Dockside tours are free and run from 4-5pm today through Friday (donations are suggested) and special battle or adventure sails have admissions fees on the weekend.  See details here.

Captain James, affectionately known among the crewmembers as “Shiny.”  He started sailing big ships like this when he was 19.  He’s 19.5 now.  (No, actually he said he’s 27.)

Agoura Hills Dad is an engineer, so I liked this little detail that is affixed to the underside of a hatch cover on the Chieftain. 

Belowdecks, this faux-pirate lass explained some of the wares displayed for visitors.

These bricks are made of Chinese tea.  Once America rejected the rule of the United Kingdom, American merchants looked to China for tea instead of India, where it was more commonly shipped in leaf form.

 Our little adventure took about an hour including drive time.  We stopped at The Habit on Vineyard in Oxnard, just south of the freeway entrance, on our way home.  It was a great way to get outside and spend some time together on this holiday!