Take Your Time Back With dotmine Day Planners

 

I don’t leave home without my planner.

Something funny happened to me early this summer. I was happily – and a bit obliviously – filling out calendars and making notes in my Blue Sky desk planner when I flipped a page and time ended.

Yes. Time simply ended.

Because this was an academic-year planner, and it only went up to the end of June.

Duh.

Previous to that moment I hadn’t realized that an academic planner ended in June.  I didn’t even bother to flip through it, because I had been so enamored of the pretty, pretty paper.  Lots of ideas flew through my brain then:  Could I live without a paper planner until January?  No.  Could I just go get a new planner at the bookstore?  Not likely – it was May.  Could I use a date-non-specific planner, the kind where you write in the dates?  Certainly not.

Then I remembered I had met one of the owners of dotmine, a company that makes day planners, at BlogHer last year.  She was lovely and inspiring and had offered to send me one of their products but I hadn’t taken her up on the offer because I already had a planner.  Dummy.  In my silly state of plannerlessness, I dug up her card and emailed her my predicament and she came to my rescue at once.  Sarah, everybody.  Mother, business owner, superhero.

With Sarah’s help I chose a previous-year design, the Floating Leaves Family_Time.Mine desk planner (pictured above).  It’s as big as a college-ruled spiral notebook and way more functional.  The pages go from August 2011 through December 2012, which is just right to get me to the end of the year.

The Family_Time.Mine style of planner from dotmine is designed for moms who run a household with children in it who have very busy schedules.  There is a master planner for each season of the year, a two-page spread for each month, and a page for each week with large ruled blocks for every weekday and smaller blocks for weekend days.  And room for jotting down lists in the margins.  Bonus:  there are inspirational quotes printed at the bottom of some pages.  This week’s is surprisingly appropriate for my life:

Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple. -Dr. Seuss

I like that the Family_Time.Mine is reinforced with a clear plastic cover to protect its innards – my planner gets a lot of abuse so this is very helpful.  I tend to make a ton of lists, so I often fill the day’s blocks up with that day’s tasks and cross them off (all in pencil, since it changes so often) and then if I have to make a longer list I use the margins.

Here are some interior views:

For longer notes, like from a phone conversation or something more detailed, I use a different piece of paper or a notebook, because there’s not much space for notes in this planner, maybe a page or two.  In fact, there is a big section at the back for things like lists for the babysitter, or address book type entries, which I don’t use in paper format anymore at all.  All my contacts are in my phone or my Google account.  I am beyond sitting down and copying names, addresses, and phone numbers once a year into my planner.  So I just used that space for more notes and lists!

For this coming calendar year I will probably pick a different style, because I haven’t used it much so far for the kids’ school information. That stuff I keep haphazardly in a green desk basket on the kitchen counter, or on the corkboard, or in my head.  So obviously, I don’t need to organize it.  Haha.

Here is the latest from dotmine Planners:

“Once again, we’re honored to partner with the Young Survival Coalition (YSC), the premier global organization dedicated to the critical issues unique to young women who are diagnosed with breast cancer. YSC offers resources, connections and outreach so women feel supported, empowered and hopeful. More information atwww.youngsurvival.org.

This month, we’ll proudly donate 40% of our profits on all pink planners at www.timemine.com.

And, to help you help us help YSC (did you follow that?), we’ll give you an extra 20% off time.mine Preppy Party Girllife_time.mine Moor Pink and family_time.mine Elle’s Pick. Use discount code PINK12 at checkout.”

I received a complimentary day planner to facilitate this feature.  In other words, Sarah saved my sanity.

Allergen-Free Goodies for the Trick or Treaters

This is a reprint of a post that originally appeared in October 2008 on the now-defunct website Being Savvy San Fernando.  Links to resources have been updated.

Nothing takes the fun out of trick-or-treating like food allergies in children.  If your child or someone close to you has a serious food allergy that makes most candy dangerous to them, navigating Halloween can be an anxiety inducing experience.  Some parents cope by skipping the ritual altogether, but as children get older and especially if they have siblings, it gets harder to deny them the fun of going door-to-door with the rest of the kids in the neighborhood.

Kim Parlee, 36, of West Haven, CT approaches Halloween, and any treat-filled holiday season, with trepidation.  “I never thought I’d be afraid of a Snickers bar,” she says.  Her 3-year-old daughter Kameryn was diagnosed with multiple food allergies when she was 8 months old.  Since she has an older brother, trick-or-treating came with the territory, and so far Aidan serves as a willing apprentice in the effort to shield his little sister from dangerous foods.

This family takes special measures when they go door-to-door on Halloween night:

-Kameryn wears gloves to minimize contact risk.  This year she’ll dress as Cinderella, so the gloves absolutely fit the costume.
-Kim goes right up to the doorsteps to help the children select the safest treats from the offered bowls.
-She tells the adults at each house that Kameryn has food allergies.  People are very nice about it, and then they understand why she hovers.

After the loot is gathered, the real work begins back at home.  Kim and her husband Charlie go through everything that both kids collected and read as many labels as possible.  Aidan trades out safe candy with his little sister.  And Kim keeps safe candy as a backup to fill Kameryn’s collection after the unsafe or questionable foods are removed.

As for giving out candy to the neighborhood children, it’s still a must to use safe treats, especially when the food allergies in your household are life-threatening and you don’t want to chance having traces of peanut in your house at all.  “It’s getting harder to buy safe candy because more and more manufacturers are putting facility warnings on their labels, just to release themselves from liability,” says Kim.  Her family has identified a few tried and true safe treats, mostly sugar-based hard candies and lollipops (luckily, Kam is a big lollipop fan!).  Alison St. Sure provides a very comprehensive list of major candy manufacturers and their brands and links to their allergen statements on her blog, Sure Foods Living, which is dedicated to awareness of celiac disease and food sensitivities.

As an alternative to trick or treating for candy, The Food Allergy and Anaphylaxis encourages kids to collect donations to support their “mission to raise public awareness, to provide advocacy and education, and to advance research on behalf of all those affected by food allergies and anaphylaxis. Every dollar, quarter, nickel, and dime counts.”  You can request a collection kid for your child here.

 

How To Write A Kids’ Book

Every so often there is a Hollywood-type event in the Valley. Not exactly right in our own backyards, but close enough, right? Lucky us.

My pals at MomAngeles and my friend Sarah Maizes (author of “On My Way To the Bath” pictured above, and “Got MILF?”) will be presenting a morning of information, kids’ crafts and story readings at Scribble Press at the Encino Town Center.

Sarah is hilarious both in her writing and in person, and Laura Gerson of MomAngeles is one resourceful lady. She is building a great networked database of things to do in and around Los Angeles for families.

Saturday, September 29
10AM – 2PM
Scribble Press Encino
$25 per kid (adults come free)*
Includes coffee, crafts, and Q&A with the author on how to write, publish and distribute a kids book.
Attendance is limited to 20 kids and 30 adults.
Tickets available online at MomAngeles.

*The event is FREE with a promo code available to MomAngeles Mommy Club card members.